Skip to content

Still hoping for another chance? Start here.

Understand no contact, think through reconnecting, and work out what a second chance would need. There’s room here for wanting them back and looking after yourself.

3 articles

Moving forward 3 min read Archive:

Marking an anniversary without reopening contact

Acknowledge a meaningful date with a private plan, while keeping contact decisions tied to current agreements and circumstances.

#anniversaries#grief#boundaries#memories

No contact 3 min read Archive:

Handling the urge to send a holiday message

Make a holiday contact decision before nostalgia and expectation start making it for you.

#anniversaries#no-contact#hope

No contact 3 min read Archive:

Should you wish your ex a happy birthday?

Decide whether a birthday greeting fits your actual contact, without making it a test of love.

#anniversaries#messaging#boundaries

Archive dates organize this collection across the past year. The collection was written on October 2, 2026.